Tuesday, December 02, 2008

My Personality Type

What do you think - does this sound like me?

Portrait of an INTJ - Introverted iNtuitive Thinking Judging
(Introverted Intuition with Extraverted Thinking)

The Scientist

As an INTJ, your primary mode of living is focused internally, where you take things in primarily via your intuition. Your secondary mode is external, where you deal with things rationally and logically.

INTJs live in the world of ideas and strategic planning. They value intelligence, knowledge, and competence, and typically have high standards in these regards, which they continuously strive to fulfill. To a somewhat lesser extent, they have similar expectations of others.

With Introverted Intuition dominating their personality, INTJs focus their energy on observing the world, and generating ideas and possibilities. Their mind constantly gathers information and makes associations about it. They are tremendously insightful and usually are very quick to understand new ideas. However, their primary interest is not understanding a concept, but rather applying that concept in a useful way. Unlike the INTP, they do not follow an idea as far as they possibly can, seeking only to understand it fully. INTJs are driven to come to conclusions about ideas. Their need for closure and organization usually requires that they take some action.

INTJ's tremendous value and need for systems and organization, combined with their natural insightfulness, makes them excellent scientists. An INTJ scientist gives a gift to society by putting their ideas into a useful form for others to follow. It is not easy for the INTJ to express their internal images, insights, and abstractions. The internal form of the INTJ's thoughts and concepts is highly individualized, and is not readily translatable into a form that others will understand. However, the INTJ is driven to translate their ideas into a plan or system that is usually readily explainable, rather than to do a direct translation of their thoughts. They usually don't see the value of a direct transaction, and will also have difficulty expressing their ideas, which are non-linear. However, their extreme respect of knowledge and intelligence will motivate them to explain themselves to another person who they feel is deserving of the effort.

INTJs are natural leaders, although they usually choose to remain in the background until they see a real need to take over the lead. When they are in leadership roles, they are quite effective, because they are able to objectively see the reality of a situation, and are adaptable enough to change things which aren't working well. They are the supreme strategists - always scanning available ideas and concepts and weighing them against their current strategy, to plan for every conceivable contingency.

INTJs spend a lot of time inside their own minds, and may have little interest in the other people's thoughts or feelings. Unless their Feeling side is developed, they may have problems giving other people the level of intimacy that is needed. Unless their Sensing side is developed, they may have a tendency to ignore details which are necessary for implementing their ideas.

The INTJ's interest in dealing with the world is to make decisions, express judgments, and put everything that they encounter into an understandable and rational system. Consequently, they are quick to express judgments. Often they have very evolved intuitions, and are convinced that they are right about things. Unless they complement their intuitive understanding with a well-developed ability to express their insights, they may find themselves frequently misunderstood. In these cases, INTJs tend to blame misunderstandings on the limitations of the other party, rather than on their own difficulty in expressing themselves. This tendency may cause the INTJ to dismiss others input too quickly, and to become generally arrogant and elitist.

INTJs are ambitious, self-confident, deliberate, long-range thinkers. Many INTJs end up in engineering or scientific pursuits, although some find enough challenge within the business world in areas which involve organizing and strategic planning. They dislike messiness and inefficiency, and anything that is muddled or unclear. They value clarity and efficiency, and will put enormous amounts of energy and time into consolidating their insights into structured patterns.

Other people may have a difficult time understanding an INTJ. They may see them as aloof and reserved. Indeed, the INTJ is not overly demonstrative of their affections, and is likely to not give as much praise or positive support as others may need or desire. That doesn't mean that he or she doesn't truly have affection or regard for others, they simply do not typically feel the need to express it. Others may falsely perceive the INTJ as being rigid and set in their ways. Nothing could be further from the truth, because the INTJ is committed to always finding the objective best strategy to implement their ideas. The INTJ is usually quite open to hearing an alternative way of doing something.

When under a great deal of stress, the INTJ may become obsessed with mindless repetitive, Sensate activities, such as over-drinking. They may also tend to become absorbed with minutia and details that they would not normally consider important to their overall goal.

INTJs need to remember to express themselves sufficiently, so as to avoid difficulties with people misunderstandings. In the absence of properly developing their communication abilities, they may become abrupt and short with people, and isolationists.

INTJs have a tremendous amount of ability to accomplish great things. They have insight into the Big Picture, and are driven to synthesize their concepts into solid plans of action. Their reasoning skills gives them the means to accomplish that. INTJs are most always highly competent people, and will not have a problem meeting their career or education goals. They have the capability to make great strides in these arenas. On a personal level, the INTJ who practices tolerances and puts effort into effectively communicating their insights to others has everything in his or her power to lead a rich and rewarding life.

Jungian functional preference ordering:
Dominant: Introverted Intuition
Auxilliary: Extraverted Thinking
Tertiary: Introverted Feeling
Inferior: Extraverted Sensing

Monday, December 01, 2008

Pre and Post Thanksgiving Update

So looking at my posts, I realized I haven't blogged since Veteran's Day. November was a crazy month. I was in Cincinnati (Sidebar - Ohio sucks) for a conference the week before Thanksgiving, and so the days leading up to that were crazy trying to get a bunch of stuff done and lined up so that when I got back I would be able to close the building down the Saturday before Thanksgiving.

So the conference came and went, and then I had to close down the building, and then by the time all that was done all I wanted to do was take a nap. But, I went to visit the Captain in Fort Wayne instead. We played a lot of Call of Duty: World at War which is, by the way, awesome. Then I came back to my apartment to "work" for two days before heading back to Michigan.

Going back to Michigan, I was telling people that I couldn't remember the last time my brothers and I were all in the same place at the same time. I think it might have been Memorial Day, but I wasn't sure. I got home Tuesday night, and only one of my brothers came home on Wednesday. My other brother stayed at school and we were going to pick him up on the way to our Grandparents' for Thanksgiving, except that he had food poisoning from the night before and couldn't get off the couch in his apartment. So, my other brother and I volunteered to stay with him for a few hours until he was sure he could make it to our grandparents' house.

And really, that's the family time that I cared about with going home for Thanksgiving. I have no problem with my extended family, but all the major holidays where we see them involve us driving two hours to see them and never vice versa, and a lot of cooking related drama. It's not that I don't want to see them, I just wish the circumstances were different.

It may be un-American, but Thanksgiving doesn't really do much for me. I don't get all excited about the food. None of the standard Thanksgiving fair is food that I typically eat at any other time of year. And like I said, while I don't have any problems with my extended family it's just always more drama than it's worth to see them on Thanksgiving. Our annual trip to Chicago is much more fun, and far less dramatic. I know Thanksgiving is a holiday during which we are to give thanks (duh) for family and the blessings we have received over the year, but that all seems to get lost in arguments over how long to cook the turkey and who is supposed to bring which pie.

Really what I enjoyed was the times that I was with my parents and my brothers. I remember as a kid only seeing certain aunts and uncles every few years, and I remember wondering if that was going to happen with my brothers and I. Now that we're all "grown up" we always seem to be busy at different times, and even though we're all no more than 3 hours from home in different directions, it still seems to be a rare occasion that we're all home. I'll see one of my brothers, or they'll see each other, but the three of us all at once doesn't happen that often anymore.

What's funny is that my immediate family seems to have a Griswold-like (National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation) feeling to it around the holidays. We steel ourselves against the onslaught of crazy relatives and have our own antics when we're at home, and now that we're all grown up we're able to interact on a more even level and it's a lot more fun than it was when we were kids.
Now that it's December I put up my little Christmas tree in my apartment and added the Christmas playlist to my iPod. We've finally got snow with about two inches of accumulation and counting, so the season is off to a good start.